A Buyer's Guide for Lube: Choosing the best lube for sex and masturbation?
If you're wondering how to find the best lube to take your sex life to new heights of pleasure, Inxtasy is here to help. This blog will provide essential tips for choosing the best lube for a spiced-up sex life. A lubricant is a must-have item for all sex adventures. Of course, you don't want to use just any lube; some are better suited for certain activities than others. So how to choose the right one? To help you find your ideal lube, here's our guide to understanding the application of each type. Intercourse without lubricant can be painful and damaging to the vaginal lining. Because of hormonal changes, menopause, ageing, or medication, your body may produce less lubricant. That's where synthetic lubricant comes in. Artificial lubricant can help increase arousal, and sexual pleasure, keep your vaginal skin soft, and, most importantly, reduce friction during penetration — whether by a partner or a sex toy. At Inxtasy, our water-based lube and silicone lubrication range will make you reach the pinnacle of sexual pleasure. But first, let us discuss some common lube-related questions, its application and its types.
Test it before you use it.
As previously stated, everyone's lubricant requirements differ. If you have sensitive skin and are concerned that a particular lube will irritate your genitalia, you can test it first. Try the lube on your wrist or inner elbow to be as safe as possible. Even if the patch test is successful, your genitals may be more sensitive due to differences in the skin and mucous membranes in the area, so you can try applying lube to and around the vulva to see how you react. Finally, you can test the product in your vagina to see your sensitivity.
Types of lubes and their applications.
Water-based lubricants
Water-based lube is the best choice for beginners. It's safe for all types of sex, easy to clean up and non-irritating. Water-based lubricants are compatible with latex condoms--oil-based lubes break down latex condoms, so you should avoid them if you use a condom. Silicone-based lubes can also be used with latex condoms, but hybrid lubes (made of both water and silicone bases) can't because they don't work well together in that way. Natural lubricants like coconut oil or almond oil are body safe and chemical-free. Still, they can be messy or sticky depending on the friction between your bodies during sex! Hence, water-based lubes are generally safer and easier to use.
Silicone-based lubricants
Silicone-based lubricants are long-lasting and won't dry out, which makes them an excellent choice for anyone who wants to use lube for longer than a few minutes. Silicone-based lube cannot be used with silicone sex toys, but they're safe for use with condoms and latex toys. A silicone formula is ideal if you enjoy anal play because it won't wash off in the shower and doesn't stain sheets or lingerie! If you use silicone lube with a condom, apply it externally only. Silicone lubrication is a little more complex to wash off than water-based formulas. Still, they don't have any harmful side effects that oil-based lubes can have. Silicone-based lube should never be used with silicone sex toys. They have a chemical reaction that will destroy the toy, and it's also crucial not to use silicone lubes with condoms or latex barriers (such as gloves). These formulas are thicker and longer lasting than water-based lubes but dry out slowly. It makes them ideal for playtime longer than an hour or two. But they don't have any harmful side effects that oil-based lubes can have. Try warming or cooling lubes if you want something with a little more kick. These are designed to simulate the sensations of oral sex by heating or cooling down your body's natural lubrication.
Oil-based lubricants
Oil-based lubricants are unsafe for latex condoms and should not be used with sex toys. The oil in these products can break down the material of some toys, causing them to degrade more quickly than they would otherwise. Oil-based lubes can also cause irritation or allergic reactions on the skin and mucous membranes. Some people may experience burning sensations with oil-based lubes since they're incredibly slick, while others may find that they sting when applied directly inside the vagina or anus (this is especially true if you have any cuts or sores). Oil-based lubricants can stain sheets, clothing and other fabrics--so keep this in mind when choosing a place for your sexy time!
If you're using an oil-based lubricant for vaginal intercourse, it's essential to use a condom. It will prevent the lube from being absorbed into your body and causing irritation or allergic reactions. Suppose you're using an oil-based lube for anal intercourse. In that case, however, it's probably best not to use one since it can degrade latex condoms and make them more likely to break during sex.
Hybrid lubricants
Hybrid lubricants combine water and silicone, which are great for people with sensitive skin. They're also very slippery and can last longer than water-based lubricants. Some hybrid lubricants are flavoured, which makes them even more fun to use! If you need to use a condom during sex (for example, if you're using condoms as birth control), ensure the lube is compatible with latex condoms before applying it.
Silicone-based lubricants are slippery and long-lasting, but they can damage silicone sex toys, so you should only use them with non-silicone toys. You can get flavoured versions, which have a pleasant smell and taste, making oral sex even more fun. You can also get silicone-based lubricants explicitly designed to suit everyone's needs.
Natural lubricants
Plenty of plant-based ingredients can be used as lubricants if you're looking for a more natural alternative to lube. The most common ones are coconut and olive oil, solid at room temperature but liquid when heated. Other popular choices include jojoba oil (wax) and shea butter. All these options make great personal lubricants because they have natural anti-inflammatory properties that soothe sensitive skin during sex.
Natural lubes also tend to be water-based, which means they won't stain sheets or ruin silicone toys as some petroleum-based products do. However, not all water-based formulas work well with every toy material!
Some prefer silicone-based lubes because they're more slippery and longer-lasting. These formulas can also be used with all sex toys but are unsuitable for some body parts (including the vagina).
Flavoured lubricants
Flavoured lubricants are a great way to spice up your oral sex routine. Flavoured lubes can be used in various ways: you can use them as a part of foreplay before intercourse or if you want to change things up during intercourse. Flavoured lubes are also safe for condoms (unlike some other types), so if you're looking for something that will enhance the flavour and texture of your condom experience without compromising safety, this may be worth trying out!
If flavoured lubricants aren't your thing, but you still want something sweet and fun in bed, plenty more options are available!
Try some edible body paints, or use flavoured massage oil to add sweetness to your sensual massage routine. You can also try baking some fun edible treats for your lover! If you like the idea of using food for foreplay but don't want it to be a messy process, try grabbing some edible body paint and have your partner draw their favourite dessert on your skin before licking it off.
The perfect lube equals heightened pleasures!
There are many lubes, but not all are created equal. The most common types of lubricant fall into three categories: water-based, silicone-based and oil-based.
Water-based lubes are the most popular because they're easy to find, affordable and safe for use with latex condoms. They also wash off easily with soap and water or can be removed using a commercial product like Sex Toy Cleaner (which won't damage your toys).
Silicone-based lubricants tend to last longer than water-based ones; however, they can stain fabrics or leave sticky marks if you don't wash them off thoroughly after use! Silicone lubes are also more challenging to clean off than other lubricants, so ensure you always have some toy cleaner on hand when using these products! Hybrid lubes contain some aspects from each type of lubricant listed above while remaining compatible with all materials used in today's sex toys industry. So if you're looking for something versatile, this might be right up your alley! Oil-based lubes are great for sensitive skin but can damage silicone toys and condoms. They are also more expensive than other types of lubricant. Water-based lubes are your best bet if you want something safe to use with all sex toys.
Inxtasy: your perfect match!
So, what's the best lube for you and your partner? If you ask us, we suggest you research our product page and find out which lubricants are best for your needs. Remember safety, too; many types of lubricants can cause irritation or infection if you're not careful with them. Remember that different lubes work better under various circumstances, so choose wisely!
Ultimately, it's important to remember that a lubricant is just a tool. It can help you in your quest for better sex, but it won't make or break it by itself. Most importantly, both partners should be invested in ensuring their bodies feel good and safe during sex!